usrabbar
30-Apr-2008, 06:30 PM
لقد فكرت في كلامك اخ عمر لهذا رايت ان اسرد الاجوبة في موضوع مستقل حتى لا تحذف مع الموضوع..
هذا الموضوع كنت قد شاركت به في احد المنتديات الغربية بحثت عنه الان و و جدته
ارجو من الاخوة ان وجدوا خطا ان يصححوه و الله ولي التوفيق
Multiple wives in Islam
These are some (not all) wise reasons for
multiple wives in Islam..
I’ve tried my best to make it short, so sorry
is seems long..
Koran :
3. And if you fear that you will not be just
in dealing with the orphans, then marry of
other women as may be agreeable to you, two,
or three, or four; and if you fear you will
not be able to do justice, then marry only
one or marry what your right hand possess.
Thus it is more likely that you will not do
injustice.
A- Conditions to get Multiple wives:
- Don’t exceed four (more than 4 is
forbidden)
- If you can make equality (justice) between
them else more than 1 is forbidden
- If you can spend money for them (you got a
good job allows you to nourish them and their
children, clothes… and other life’s
requirements) else more than 1 is forbidden.
B- wisdom:
(most non-Muslim men who talk about Multiple
wives they have many girls-friends even if
they are married, and when their
girls-friends get birth they –run away- and
left them, they fear of responsibility, so
which is better ?
4 lawful wives their children know their
father or unlimited girls-friend and kids
without father?)
1- Multiple wives means many children (more
people -> more employees -> good
economy).
2- Statistics says that women are more than
men (men more exposed to death as for
soldiers who dies in wars, work’s
accidents…)
So if each man marry one woman so many women
will stay without marriage, what should they
do to keep their chastity, and get kids…,
surely is more then 1 wife is forbidden they
will commit adultery and get unlawful kids
and this will harm the society.. Because
those kids will not know their fathers so
they will be aggressive toward their society
and we can see that most of those in mafia
are without fathers…
3- women cat get menstruation and when she
give birth she stay 40 days by the blood of
birth (I don’t know the name in English) so
his husband cannot do sex with her during
that (forbidden in Islam), so what you want
him do sex behind her with a “girl-friend” ?
4- If woman cannot give birth, what he will
divorce her to marry an other to get kids? Or
is better that she stays with him as wife and
the second wife..
5- When a woman his husband dead and left her
with kids and without job what she will do?
Go to clubs (bars dance striptease) to get
money? Or is better being as second wife and
keep her chastity and kids?
6- why not woman get more than man?
1- ask medicine to tell the harm of many drop
of sperm from multiple men
2- the same thing, kids will not know who
between those is their father.
may i ask you a
question..?
if you are among 3 girls in a city in which
there are only 2 men, so those 2 men get
married with other 2 girls and you stayed
alone without marriage, then 1 of those men
ask you to be his secnd wife what you'll
do?
No.
yes because you're still young, so please ask
this question to women who have
30,..35..39..42 ... years old and more and now
without marriage and still virgin (they don't
commit adultery), surely they will answer:
yes..
answer:
They could move to another city...
They could get a job...
Perhaps a life...
Some dignity along the way maybe...
they will move to
anther city, so think about the wold in which
we have women more than men.. if each man
marry one women, who will marry those women?
plus you think that woman needs just to
suvivel ?
no sparkle_dust199 0, ask women whom rich and
they don't have a husband and kids, and ask
them what they want in life they will say..
a kind husband, and nice kids
its hard for a woman to live without family's
warmth, without kids to take care of them,
and play with them.. and see them while they
grow up...
that's the happiness for woman..
هذا الموضوع كنت قد شاركت به في احد المنتديات الغربية بحثت عنه الان و و جدته
ارجو من الاخوة ان وجدوا خطا ان يصححوه و الله ولي التوفيق
Multiple wives in Islam
These are some (not all) wise reasons for
multiple wives in Islam..
I’ve tried my best to make it short, so sorry
is seems long..
Koran :
3. And if you fear that you will not be just
in dealing with the orphans, then marry of
other women as may be agreeable to you, two,
or three, or four; and if you fear you will
not be able to do justice, then marry only
one or marry what your right hand possess.
Thus it is more likely that you will not do
injustice.
A- Conditions to get Multiple wives:
- Don’t exceed four (more than 4 is
forbidden)
- If you can make equality (justice) between
them else more than 1 is forbidden
- If you can spend money for them (you got a
good job allows you to nourish them and their
children, clothes… and other life’s
requirements) else more than 1 is forbidden.
B- wisdom:
(most non-Muslim men who talk about Multiple
wives they have many girls-friends even if
they are married, and when their
girls-friends get birth they –run away- and
left them, they fear of responsibility, so
which is better ?
4 lawful wives their children know their
father or unlimited girls-friend and kids
without father?)
1- Multiple wives means many children (more
people -> more employees -> good
economy).
2- Statistics says that women are more than
men (men more exposed to death as for
soldiers who dies in wars, work’s
accidents…)
So if each man marry one woman so many women
will stay without marriage, what should they
do to keep their chastity, and get kids…,
surely is more then 1 wife is forbidden they
will commit adultery and get unlawful kids
and this will harm the society.. Because
those kids will not know their fathers so
they will be aggressive toward their society
and we can see that most of those in mafia
are without fathers…
3- women cat get menstruation and when she
give birth she stay 40 days by the blood of
birth (I don’t know the name in English) so
his husband cannot do sex with her during
that (forbidden in Islam), so what you want
him do sex behind her with a “girl-friend” ?
4- If woman cannot give birth, what he will
divorce her to marry an other to get kids? Or
is better that she stays with him as wife and
the second wife..
5- When a woman his husband dead and left her
with kids and without job what she will do?
Go to clubs (bars dance striptease) to get
money? Or is better being as second wife and
keep her chastity and kids?
6- why not woman get more than man?
1- ask medicine to tell the harm of many drop
of sperm from multiple men
2- the same thing, kids will not know who
between those is their father.
may i ask you a
question..?
if you are among 3 girls in a city in which
there are only 2 men, so those 2 men get
married with other 2 girls and you stayed
alone without marriage, then 1 of those men
ask you to be his secnd wife what you'll
do?
No.
yes because you're still young, so please ask
this question to women who have
30,..35..39..42 ... years old and more and now
without marriage and still virgin (they don't
commit adultery), surely they will answer:
yes..
answer:
They could move to another city...
They could get a job...
Perhaps a life...
Some dignity along the way maybe...
they will move to
anther city, so think about the wold in which
we have women more than men.. if each man
marry one women, who will marry those women?
plus you think that woman needs just to
suvivel ?
no sparkle_dust199 0, ask women whom rich and
they don't have a husband and kids, and ask
them what they want in life they will say..
a kind husband, and nice kids
its hard for a woman to live without family's
warmth, without kids to take care of them,
and play with them.. and see them while they
grow up...
that's the happiness for woman..